With a hec of a lot to offer, Miss L is one great package. She has style, confidence, personality, and a very radiant vibe. She is also quite well known on the social scene in New York and also LA. Recently she met a nice guy who we shall call 'New York Dude.' NYD asked her out to dinner. Everything went well, and a great evening was capped off with a goodnight kiss. 2 more dates soon followed in the next 2 weeks and NYD was making it very clear that he wanted things to get physical and fast. NYD had been a perfect gentleman and wasn't too pushy for sex, Miss L really liked him so she decided wait till the fourth date before doing the trip to her bedroom with NYD. I should point out that NYD lives a good couple of hours out of New York, but travels to the city a lot for his work. Miss L contacted me at this point for advice, she was concerned that NYD lives a fair way out of NY, and she wasn't sure if he was serious about a relationship with her as he had not long been divorced and he also had a child.
I advised Miss L that the only thing that concerned me with this guy, and soooo many other recently divorced men, was the fact that many of them love to go sowing their oats for the second time around, or rather...reliving their sexual youth again. Often men who are recently out of marriage are simply out on the prowl for plenty of sex with no real desire for a real relationship at all. My other concern was, as I knew NYD came to the Big Apple a lot for work trips, I did not want Miss L to wind up being his ...'New York Lay Pad' if you know what I mean. Or possibly even one of his many NY lay pads. A place where he can just coast into town, call up one of his casual ladies, and score some free accommodation and good sex, before skipping back home again. This kind of scenario happens a lot with divorced men.
Miss L is a smart woman, and she is very aware of this, and although she is very much enjoying his company, in AND out of the bedroom, she is planning on soon telling him that she is not after a casual relationship, she wants the real thing. He ticks most of her boxes, and who knows, maybe he is Mr Right. Stay tuned for more, and don't forget to comment or ask questions or send in some of your own questions and dating adventures,