Check out this great article, it has many similarities to my chapter in my book on this very subject. Friends with Benefits....yep...male and female 'friends' that bonk as well. Is it for you? Have a read http://www.datehub.com.au/#!The-dark-side-of-friendswithbenefits/pdwxa/5796ab910cf203f784234d1b and let me know. Nick. :)
To divulge deeper, I cover this in my book The Power of Women Over Men in the chapter called 'Friends With Benefits: FWB'.
You can find it on Amazon: http://bit.ly/NK-ThePowerOfWomenOverMen
Show A Man You're Interested Through Your Body Language...
I was lucky enough to be interviewed by fellow dating coach Suzanne Oshima, Founder of Single in Stilettos in New York. Watch video 1 of 3 below for heaps of dating tips on How To Show A Man You're Interested Through Your Body Language.
Happy International Women's Day to all you gorgeous powerful ladies out there! This is your day! xx
Alone again this Valentine's Day? You and millions of others, so don't fret too much about it on this nice, but highly commercialized day of romance. When you tap into your natural power and get yourself a wonderful man, every day can be like Valentine's Day. Just remember there is no reason not to spoil yourself a little regardless. So from me to you, Happy Valentine's, with choccies and roses... I love you all...
Great article here...I have known this since I was in my teens! EVERY guy is guilty of 'admiring' at least one his friends hot moms, teachers, ...you get my drift ! As a guy who dated several much older women in my twenties, I can vouch for this article 100 percent! Women in their late thirties and into their forties rocked my world. I still think back with very fond memories of my very sexy and worldly 40 yo girlfriend when I was only, gasp...26! Yep, not that big a gap many of you might say, but many others feel differently. I still feel I rather 'came of age' with that woman, it was her that taught me the difference between fine wine and the cheap nasty stuff...and many times we would dine out at places I would never have contemplated dining at if not for her suggestion. I often marvelled at her confidence and her stylish clothing, and the way she could strike up a conversation with anybody and always leave them impressed.
Sex with her was off the chart, I was always chomping at the bit to get her in bed and we both loved it, her confidence and experience showed in, AND out of the bedroom. Although I had experienced brief sexual encounters with older women before in my early twenties, this particular girlfriend still brings very fond memories. Everything in this article is accurate in my opinion. So for you ladies out there in your late thirties and much older, don't be shy if you fancy playing around with a young man or two, or three! lol, Hec, date a bunch of them! Over the centuries history has shown us strongly that men have dated and married much younger women forever!
But oh how the times have changed, and now many ladies over forty know full well there are loads of eager young men out there ready to enjoy the sensual sexy confidence of a lady a decade or two older than them, I know I did. Young women are gorgeous for sure, that youthful beauty is incredible. But only a woman who has been there and done that lived a life can radiate that exciting energy that lights a mans fire, especially a much younger man. Click on the link below to read the article by Alex Obed.
Hi all, sorry for my absence, I have been dealing with an ill family member who is now on the mend which is wonderful ! I want to thank everyone for the messages and questions, and for the wonderful reviews on the book on so many different sites. I am so happy my book has made such a positive change in so many women's lives. I will most likely be doing a little travelling over the break and looking forward to it.
I want to give a huge shout out and congratulations to Joanna from Melbourne Australia, she was one of the first ladies to read my book, and after a disastrous 3 years of dating all the wrong guys, she has now found herself a wonderful new man and they are very happy and plan to move in together in January 2016! Joanna has thanked me for all the great tips and advice in the book which she used to amazing affect, and now has her dream man, lets hope it all works out! But I want to thank YOU Joanna for being one of my first readers AND one of my first success stories!
Merry Christmas and happy new year to all of you! May the festive season and the new year bring you plenty of wonderful men to choose from, and of course your perfect man! Love Nick. xxxxxooooo
Hi, and welcome to back to my blog.
I hope you all have had a great week! If you read the last post about the fabulous 'Miss L', here is another update direct from New York City. A place that stole part of my heart a few years back. Miss L has decided now in her late thirties that she is ready to find her forever man and settle down and maybe have a family. She has recently been dating a guy we named 'NYD' New York Dude. After enjoying 4 dates with him, mutual passion boiled over and Miss L allowed NYD to visit her bedroom to seal the deal. Things went well after a few more hot sweaty sessions in the next couple of weeks, then NYD had to go for a business trip quite a distance away.
He called Miss L for a chat one evening from his remote hotel room and made it clear he missed her ....A LOT. NYD then suggested that Miss L engage in a little...'Visual sex chat with him...minus her clothing! Miss L is a super classy lady who really had not been dating this guy long at all when he suggested this. A little taken aback, she declined, and ended the call to finish some work she had to do as she is a successful and busy woman. Miss L contacted me about NYD and his 'phone video sex chat request'. I could tell immediately Miss L was not super impressed with his request. I told Miss L she made the right call in declining on this. Miss L asked me why NYD wanted phone video sex at all, let alone so early in the relationship, so I told her the truth as I always do.
I told her that any guy who wants something like that in the very early stages and has not really earned his stripes yet is a bit of a concern. We all like a bit of sexy fun, but in this scenario he was pushing his luck a bit. With modern technology and face to face capability on our phones a part of our every day lives, we can understand how this type of thing is far more common place these days. But still....any guy who has only just started dating / sleeping with you and starts asking you to expose yourself on his phone for...lets face it, his own sexual gratification is a bit of a worry. In this day and age, women have to be increasingly aware of digital privacy, it is very easy for people to record activity on phones and computers these days, every single day new apps are coming out that allow us to do amazing things on our phone etc.... I advise all women to be extremely cautious in engaging in activity like this with anybody. You just never know. And sadly, I have to be honest that a lot of guys like to record stuff like this and keep it, and some will even show their male friends their 'trophies'...sad I know.
I also told Miss L that NYD wanted to do this because, apart from the main reason, (To get himself off) I truly felt this was also a 'control' exercise, NYD was trying to see how far he could push Miss L sexually by seeing if he could 'command' her to basically perform naked on his phone for him. Believe me when I tell you many guys will try stuff like this to see if they have a girl around their little finger so to speak. If you submit to this type of thing early, a guy will then try to push you into all kinds of things, and often become very dominating very fast. Miss L stuck to her guns and NYD soon apologised to her. But in a way the damage was done. I will say however though, in another scenario, this can be OK, for example, a soldier who has been deployed to a dangerous foreign country might engage in this kind of thing with his wife, or long term partner when he has shown long term love and respect for his woman. When he has proven his love, commitment, and trust for his lady, well, sometimes he might deserve a little treat like this, but NOT some dude you have just started dating.
Miss L recently told me she has since spoken to NYD and told him she was not so impressed about his request, and that she didn't feel like he was after a serious relationship, and also that she was not impressed he had arrived to a couple of their dates very very late with very lame apologies. (Never a good sign) and so forth, NYD admitted he was not after anything serious, he told Miss L he really did like her, but didn't want to waster her time anymore. He said sorry again, and asked if they could remain friends, Miss L said that was OK. A week later NYD sent a lovely gift to Miss L saying sorry again and that he was looking forward to just being friends with her as she is such a wonderful fun confident lady.
UPDATE FROM NEW YORK--
Miss L has recently had a first date with a very hot and handsome guy she wants to call the 'Sexy Israeli guy' (SIG), he is 5 years younger, and their first date went perfectly ending with a lovely stroll around New York City. Miss L told me SIG had that 'I sooooo want to kiss you' look in his eyes, but he held back. SIG paid for the meal, lead the conversation without dominating it at all, and made her laugh. On an interesting note, SIG told Miss L he was ready to find his forever lady and settle down, a somewhat brave move on a first date... he also told her he wants children. Since this first date SIG has been texting Miss L daily with pics of himself smiling and adding little notes like....'Wish you were here with me', Miss L tells me SIG is very cute, and nice and respectful. Stay tuned for more updates on our favourite New York sister, Miss L, and bye for now.
Jackie Collins 1937 - 2015
Sad news... Farewell to the Queen of the Hollywood glamour novels, the talented Jackie Collins. You will live forever through your stories. Thank you.